• Mistress Scarlet

The Importance of How You Approach A Domme

Updated: Mar 31

There are many forms I get I simply don't reply to due to a number of factors that have inspired me to write this post. How you approach a Domme is directly correlated to the response (if any in some cases) that you receive so it's imperative to take care and consideration into your initial contact. I've seen many mistakes prospective clients make that in most cases ruin an opportunity of response. You Shot A One-Liner Or A Poorly filled Out Form Things like "Hi" or "Hey feeling like hanging out tonight" with a random number attached or "hey you availb?" isn't going to get a response. When I am approached you are presenting yourself to me and must give me a reason to want to interact with you. You're On A Black List This is a given. You Didn't Follow Contact Protocol I've seen too many who don't bother to read or follow contact protocol. If you can't follow something as simple as a contact protocol or read the info I provide then naturally I will assume you aren't going to be a good listener in person either and therefore will not be able to follow my direction or stay within boundaries. This is not the kind of person I would want to session with. You Inquired For Something Listed On My Boundaries You Sent Out an En Mass Message I never reply to these kind of inquires. They're lazy, uncreative, and often riddled with errors. They don't inspire me in any way to contact someone. You're Looking For a Girlfriend In The Wrong Places This is a red flag to me. Often these subs are looking to live out a fantasy with unrealistic expectations and grossly misunderstand what that sort of situation entails. I don't respond to any forms with this kind of thing in them.

You're Unable To Approach Me From a Submissive Manner

When speaking with a Dominatrix you must give a reason for me to want to play with you. I am not attracted to non-submissive mannerisms.

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