Birthday Month

Name: Austin Dominatrix Scarlet Vexus - Austin's Original Of Multidiciplinary Artisty
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Austin Dominatrix Scarlet Vexus

For those who know me on a more personal level I never really got to celebrate my birthdays the way I wanted to when I was younger. They were unpleasant to say the least for reasons that don’t need to be online. I’ve since made up for that period of time in many positive ways. I give myself the love I deserve and focus on the love I have for others around me. I especially like to enjoy reflecting on the immense gratitude I have for having the honor of my life path including the experience of being a Prodomme.

I do notice how people treat me around my birthdays. Clients who are inconsiderate, demanding, or can’t do the bare minimum I decline to interact with further. While this is always true year round being entitled or an energy vampire around a Prodomme’s birthday is a surefire way to push away interaction quite immediately. This is a power dynamic after all.

Outings

This is one of those rare times were I am allowing outings with those who have already met me during sessions. If you want to treat me to an outing or something interesting I’m open to doing so. This to my discretion and only with a few I know. There is no play involved or trade of play. Then it would not be a gift but a trade and that is not what I’m currently looking for.

Wishlists

Amazon wishlist
Throne wishlist
I enjoy giftcards for Etsy as well

This is common sense but I’m noting it regardless – For safety reasons I cannot accept any open drinks or food, or edible items that were made by the sub.

My reflections

I like to reflect on a lot of things around my birthday. It’s a reminder of time passing so I review many things in my life and think about all the things that have brought me happiness.

– All the amazing people I have met in this – The most supportive, all around amazing and powerful people I have ever met have been within this as a profession.

– Being a Prodomme gave me one of the best opportunities I could have had to embrace my personality and power in the deeply raw way I needed. It allowed for the complexity of my character to grow and build and gave me a great skills I applied in other facets of life.

– The people I have met as clients. – Some of the most positive and deep dynamics I have ever had have been with those who found and reached out to me. I enjoy holding space in a way that can take on a lot of emotional depth and even process if that is something someone is into. I’m always happy to give from my heart in a way that intertwines complexly with the dynamics of power I enjoy.

– Seeing beyond the illusion of what’s online. I never really saw an imaginary top or social hierarchy but just an equal space of power. I never desired to gauged my power or skill on placement, numbers of follows or likes or social media popularity. I truly started to rebel against that more in the last year. Anyone can buy those things so why did I need that to be talented or good at what I do? The messages I sometimes encountered being pushed online about viewing everything as a zero sum game and some other femme presenting person or woman MUST fail, MUST be cut down, MUST be defeated to do well just seemed unnecessarily stressful and a very bitter way to view my peers. No one cares about those things in my interactions in the everyday world. Online serves utility but my priority is touching grass, making things and face to face interaction.

Austin Dominatrix Scarlet Vexus

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