Q & A March 2026

Q & A’s are currently closed to only people whom have my email. If you wish to submit one shoot me a message or add the question into a booking request. I’ve chosen a few over the last months to answer.
What are you?
I get asked this question so much. I’m a multiracial Jamaican national. One parent is Jamaican, one is American. I didn’t grow up in Jamaica beyond my toddler years and my features are mixed with Caribbean native so it comes as a surprise to many. Many expect me to have an accent and all these other things as if I grew up there my entire childhood. I do understand patwa but I adopted the accent of what I was around most growing up.
My features are a mix of west african, caribbean native, and west slavic traits (czech bohemian). Sometimes I name other things to help it check out for people ,and not answer to many questions, but those other tiny percentages I sometime name I don’t really think about most of the time.
If you are paid enough, as two consenting adults, can you offer full service?
No. I am unable to change my chosen boundaries. It’s best to find and contact those offering the services you’re seeking.
Do you ever get stalkers?
Yeah, mine is just a big embarrassing awkward dork.
It’s just an unkind person. I was being online monitored/stalked before I knew my #1 fan existed. It’s been 8 yrs. 5 of which I’ve completely ignored it. Within a day this person gets flustered and reacts to anything I do online, even if it’s just changing a word. I’m like some kind of god to them. It’s so embarrassing, desperate and weird. 😆 And they even go out of their way to get around blocking to try to get me to see these awkward embarrassing things.
I own this person. I’m their god and I continuously get validation of it. I get them to do or say whatever I want just by weaving it in and looking active online and they get desperately flustered and do as I want. I’m that terrifying and have that much of a choke-hold on my #1 fan. It’s pure power.
When I really think about it I just pity them. That level of dependency is very sad. That’s so much time to be wasting on me and unfortunate they have so little of a life.
It’s done so bad you can’t get mad at it. It’s at most embarrassing . So I just kind of make a little challenge out of it where I do things to see how far my control runs. I kinda love it in a way. But it’s so funny.
It’s so awkward though I can’t take it seriously. I just take whatever is being targeted as a signal of what is good to focus on in my content in the future. They’ll never get over themselves or be able to leave me alone and they’ll never prove that wrong. It’s just sad and funny.
Why the watermarks?
I made a choice a long time ago when I was getting aggressively catfished on whether I wanted those there.
They’re wrapped around my face and annoying to crop out without taking off half my face or blocking my face out.
It also makes it hard for ai to use as it doesn’t get rid of my watermarks well. It also makes for easy removal of any catfish accounts.
I basically deleted all my un-watermarked photos online and I haven’t dealt with those issues since. As to complaints. I don’t receive any and it doesn’t seem to effect my audience.
Do I like them aesthetically? Absolutely not. I find them annoying but I use them because they work in my case specifically.
I am sure with time technology will change and I will adapt to that but for now that is what’s useful.
What did you do before?
I worked in retail a little bit. I got by on my illustrative works and making things for many years.I was working on a business where I could be self employed which led to a lot of different skill sets. For example I used to make leather purses for a while and that translated into being able to make leather gear as there is some similar hardware and thought going into reinforcement and things of that sort.
Why did you choose this if you could do other things?
I ended up in prodomination kind of unexpectedly and unconventionally. I was going through a rough period in my life. Being a Prodomme has transformed my life in a lot of dramatically positive ways. I am unrecognizable now. It also balances out something in my psyche and gives me another outlet for creativity. That’s why I’ve been in it as long as I have.
That’s not to say there aren’t negatives, I don’t fall into what you would consider ‘acceptable’ art when you think of a Prodomme calling themselves an artist. It’s usually referring to sessions and things relating to prodomination strictly which is great, there’s nothing wrong with that. But I also don’t like being restricted to that as my only outlet. I’ve gotten so much hate over my career geared towards creative thing I do outside of that. Though not often, I’ve actually had other professionals tell me my art does not belong in this, or get upset when I create things or illustrate, and find ways to bash on it or attempt to keep me down.
It’s unfortunate I’ve encountered that, even if it’s been few and far in-between, but I ignore it and don’t take it to heart. I want to do what I love and I don’t generally find anything threatening about that. I get to sell illustrative work in this too. I draw giantess content and a lot of fantasy based kinks or re-imagine someone in kinky scenarios, or different identities like as a sissy or a character that represents a part of themselves that only expresses through kink, and that helps them feel affirmed in themselves and kinks in a positive way. I’ve also been paid to illustrate fetishes and scenes subs wanted to explore and then recreated those in real life with the submissive.
It is disappointing the message I have gotten in my years in this profession that there is no significance to it and using the word art if I’m a Prodomme should only relate to play. I don’t want to think everyone thinks that way and maybe I just had a few negative encounters. I feel I would receive recognition for things done during play, but anything outside of that is not talent in this somehow even if it relates to submissive’s kinks and it is fetish art.
While I do prodomination full time, I do work a second job and I’m involved in other communities for positive perspectives and spaces to mutually support others and feel ‘safe’. I do think once I’m outside of prodomination one day I will move on from the negative aspects of this, holding onto only the positive aspects instead . But for now this is what I like to do and my job as a Prodominatrix is my primary focus.
Do you record sessions?
No, that would be something that would have to be planned out but generally that’s not something I want to pay attention to on top of a session. It feels like it would be a bit of a distraction for me personally.
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