Approach & Protocol
Dungeon Rules And Session Protocol
You will receive exact location instructions via a call. This is the only time I ever do calls outside of call sessions. I don't under any circumstances give out my dungeon address via email. This is to follow safety protocol. If you cannot meet this requirement I cannot accept you for a session.
I do not offer outings outside of sessions.
I will initiate and guide all acceptable contact.
My dungeon is an intimate space to be respected as one would as a guest in a stranger's home. Curious subs may ask about or request to be educated about various dungeon equipment but are not permitted to touch any dungeon equipment on display without permission.
HOW I MAY BE ADDRESSED
When speaking to me you may refer to me by Goddess, Vexus, or Goddess Vexus. I don't mind Mistress as I use it for my seo but generally it's less preferred. Unless indicated otherwise all other names or titles will not be considered customary.
Any sub invited into my dungeon must have bathed and taken other measures to be clean. This is a sanitary concern to ensure a healthy environment for both me and the sub. I will take notice and not be inclined to play if you are a slob at the dungeon (not washing hands, sitting with a lubey ass on non dungeon furniture, treating the bathroom poorly) If there's any shit, I will discontinue play period. Clean yourself properly and carry yourself with cleanliness and I will feel inclined to play.
No illegal substances are to be brought on my dungeon's premises. I will not initiate sessions with any sub who appears heavily under the influence of drugs or heavily intoxicated for the safety of the sub and mine.
TOPPING FROM THE BOTTOM
I only see those who are submissive and thus enjoy relinquishing control. Take the simple precaution of being aware of your actions. Make an effort to educate yourself on what "topping from the bottom" is. I don't take on people who do this and entertain a habit of this which can result in removal from a session.
I never negotiate tribute, cut deals, make "discounts", or accept tribute via any means I don't explicitly advise. Seeing a Dominatrix is an activity of opulence. All play is femdom focused and will always involve me in a dominant femme role.
Gifts are gifts. Gifts are under no circumstances considered trade or in debt to owe subs special liberties in regards to my boundaries or favors.
Things To Avoid
Generally this is common sense. You will not need to worry about deterring me as long one follows common sense. These things only beg to be reiterated. I ignore inquires that display many of the characteristics below.
I highly value this and I may be viewing this as an example of who you are as a submissive. I am more often than not off for a day or two, driving about town, or making something with materials (for example solvents) that can't be near my phone or computer. I am not ignoring you. I simply may not have seen the email yet.
Don't share a Dommes private communications with you, emails or personal info with another Domme
This is not received well by Prodommes as it shows you don't respect consent. Please no dropping of Dommes real names to me ect and vic versa.
Don't try to force a romantic relationship
I genuinely care about subs I see on an individual level however healthy boundaries regarding my private life are to be expected.
Do keep emails respectful of my time and profession
Emails just to have a random conversations with me will be ignored. Continuation will result in being blocked ending the dynamic.
Don't ask for my address, private phone number or to meet a somewhere before booking
This indicates to me is that a person may be predatory. The process for dungeon arrival begins after booking.
Don't inquire for an exception to anything listed in my boundaries
Don't assume you can obtain free smut
"I'll deposit" followed up by something along the lines of trying to get details of what I'll do to said contact or details of how a session goes is transparent.
Use time efficiently
Don't indicate to me you're looking to just chat, just discuss, call, or write/text something like 10 paragraphs of text about your fantasies without booking first.
Don't request depositing via means I don't instruct
Don't attempt to deliberately get free verbal domination from me
I don't respond to this type of communication. A sub whom seeks out to deliberately do what they have read are boundaries or against protocols of a Domme is practicing what is called "topping from the bottom". As a dominant it's an enormous turn off and shows me a sub has not fully developed in understanding submission or is still struggling with what submission means. I am not inclined to have enough interest to give the communication attention in such cases.