Mistress Scarlet Vexus
I'm new and I don't know what to expect
Congrats on reaching out and exploring the vast world of kink. There's no shame in being new. I welcome both new and seasoned players. The biggest fear I've seen among those who are new is that they will make a mistake or be poor at leaving a good impression. The second fear I see is fear of what may happen during a session. Both these are very natural and normal. I'm informative and communicative and I encourage questions. Boundaries you list contacting me are kept into account and my presence is welcoming, knowledgeable and unjudging. You will eventually shed most of any shyness or nervousness.
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Can you play without a safeword?
Every person has limits. I will always give a safeword regardless of whether a sub feels they will end up using it or not. Safewords aren't signals of weakness in any form or a goal in every session to get someone to use. They are just indications that something may need to change direction or any number of other things requiring a break or check in. Safewords are there for safety and a positive experience on part of both the Prodomme and the submissive.
Addressing a variety of questions about photos
I don't post pictures with any individuals face or any identifying features such as distinctive birthmarks, scars or tattoos. I ask for consent prior to taking photos. Do avoid asking me to take photos solely for your private use. It takes me extra time outside of sessions to edit photos and it wastes my time without mutual benefit of being able to post my work. If you are wanting professional photos taken of you that I cannot use in this manner this must be paid for separately. If you do not feel comfortable with photos taken simply let me know. I also will generally remove photos if a sub feels uncomfortable.
How may I address you?
You may call me Goddess as my most preferred, Vexus, or Goddess Vexus. Remember that I will never promote any nonsense that any honorifics outside of a Domme's preferences are superior or more important than the selection of honorifics other Dommes may choose. I do not prefer words such as Master or slave. While I do not carry judgement towards those honorifics use in others, it is personally difficult for me to use given it doesn't feel like it meshes well with my ethic history.
What Is Your Hourly And Deposit?
All that information regarding tribute or deposit is found here.
Can I bring toys?
Yes.
Do you have a shower available?
My dungeon includes it own private bath with toiletries available for the submissive to use.
Do you provide aftercare?
Yes.
​I have a fetish I don't see listed on your site and want to request a session with it.
I actually enjoy when someone suggests kinks I don't have listed. My list of fetishes doesn't fully encapsulate all the BDSM activities I do or my extensive level of skill in many of them. If it's not listed on my boundaries it's likely something I will love to employ and if it's in an off chance a kink I don't engage in I'll simply give you a referral if I know a Mistress that does. When requesting a session put this kink in "Others Not Listed Here" section of the form.
I had a session and now I feel "weird"
This is so normal and happens once in a while in all sorts of BDSM scenarios with all kinds of subs and Dommes and levels of experience. Most of the time this is "sub drop". I even get a form of it too as "Dom drop" however I'm trained in how to attend to this in my own way. It is especially susceptible to showing up after play that included particularly intense physical experiences of the body (needle play, impact play, ect). It can manifest as moodiness and all number of things. This comes from the level of endorphins and other chemicals that are released during play and your brain chemistry re-calibrating afterwards. You might even feel certain things about the session after. Communicate with me. : ) However no matter how you're feeling refrain from using me as a person to take that out on. I am far more likely to respond to communication that isn't. Sub drop is very temporary and you are healthy and completely okay.
​I don't have a lot of experience. Is this okay?
Yes! I like to treat all subs the same regardless of experience. To me when you meet me it is a clean slate when you meet me for the first time. I have my own style of play and way of doing things that will be unique to me as a Mistress. You will be learning this as I dominate you.
Will you [insert any long specific description of an imagined situation] during a session?
I'm always very busy both as a dominatrix and other ventures of mine so only communicate with those I plan to have meaningful interactions with so don't expect an interaction out of unsolicited questions of that nature. Though it's rare when I'm asked questions of that sort those will only result in the individual being blocked on my end.
I had a session with you and sent you an email after but you haven't responded yet.
​Right after sessions I go into self care mode, this means coming out of top space, cleaning, and rest away from screens for a bit. I do read them and enjoy them.
You haven't answered my booking request.
Give it a day or two and be patient. It's likely I have been in sessions and unable to check my emails yet. Do not spoil an opportunity with impatience. I haven't replied after then you might have done something under the things I don't reply too here.
I see several dungeon rooms in your pictures. Which one is your current?
The red and black themed one is my former, even further back is a green and bluish one (my first), my current and most largest consists of two main dungeon rooms and 3 smaller spaces with a garage for vehicles to park in for discretion of subs and myself. My art studio where much of the behind the scenes creative endeavors happens is closed off during sessions typically. My current dungeon is a beautiful display of my creative works. Much like myself with a lure in it's particular type of beauty.
Do you have clips for sale/porn/fan sites ect.
I have a vanilla second life that though very flexible and open to other things I do would be greatly at risk if I put out certain kinds of content. This does not mean scandalous things (so long as it's not one of my boundaries) do not happen during sessions as many many submissives I've seen have been witness too.
Were You "Domme Veronica" ?
Yes, in 2017 I rebranded. I had never felt the name fit me and it was intended to be temporary (it was given to me at a dungeon house) but stuck for a few years. I mostly operated using a single ad and some pics on "that site that got seized" back in the day. When I went independent I lost access to all my social media accounts so starting anew I saw it as an opportunity to rebrand.
I have another question
First check my blog. Otherwise you may directly ask.